Getting messy for pleasure can add a whole array of sensation and movement. Our own bodies offer their own forms of mess: from cum to spit to urine, sweat and more - these can all either be big turn offs or big turn-ons. Getting messy for pleasure can be a liberating experience - especially for those of us who like order in our day to day lives.

Sploshing is the term used for those who have a fetish for messy, often wet, or dirty play. Whether you're into full body messes or a more nuanced form of mess (face covered in spit anyone?), the choice is yours. This is an invitation to play with mess in whatever ways feel interesting to you.

Consider what you are willing or interested in playing with: your own bodies fluids, something from your kitchen, something from outside?

Consider what part(s) of your body you want to experience the mess? Where would it feel interesting to you? What parts are off limits?

Consider what you need to keep the play contained: do you need a sheet or tarp to cover any furniture? Do you need to be outside? Do you need some towels nearby so you can keep the mess where you want it and not where you don't?

Then, play! See what textures, smells, tastes, and movement happens.

Reflection:

What attracts me to mess play? What repulses me from mess play?

What ways does allowing for mess allow for more pleasure?

What ways does refraining from mess allow for more pleasure?