The irony is, you have been practicing "sex magic" this whole time... sex magic can be as simple as using your masturbation practice to relieve stress or to fall asleep or using your orgasm to send peace to the people of Sudan.

To focus your practice on sex magic, your intention is key. You can use the altered state of consciousness of arousal to focus your attention and intention on something.

Do you want to connect to a higher power/Spirit/God?

Do you want to influence/shift the outcome of a situation?

Do you want send healing energy to someone or somewhere?

Consider your intention and attention and allow your pleasure practice to follow suit. You might even consider holding your prayer or intention as you orgasm.

Reflections

What does 'sex magic' mean to you?

What is your concept of God/Higher Power in relationship to sex?